My superannuation statement arrived the other day. Amongst other things, it noted that if I’m kind enough to die suddenly my family will receive an astonishing amount of money. Mon and I joked a bit about that, like you do, and Ashleigh started to get in on the joke. After a bit, Mon pointed out that even though it was a lot of money, would it really make up for missing out on all the love and fun and other stuff that we have when I’m there.

Ash thought quite seriously about this for a while, and finally concluded : “Yeah, but we’d forget about him after a while”